Monday, September 11, 2006

Is it Alright to be Sexy?

Is it alright to be sexy? Our society has so much judgment when it comes to a woman showing her sensuality. Why is this? I say it was based in the Puritan value system…

What is a woman to do if she enjoys this part of herself and is willing to share some intimacy?

Let’s get real… together… I strive for authenticity and transparency so you can see who I am inside and out. In fact, I think it is your duty as a human being to be who you are and express your individuality. An aspect of happiness is knowing and understanding who you are and what you are here to do.

There is intimacy in my personality and there is a feminine sensuality inside me too… What do I face for being me? The only thing I can think of is your judgment… well, I am happy… being me: open, authentic, sensual, and intimate with you.

Happiness is an intimate topic. Happiness is not a surface conversation; it is from your heart - an intimate place.

I am secure within myself and confident about myself so I remain unaffected by your judgment. It actually does not bother me. I return to the importance of being myself… what you see is what you get.

So yes, it is ok to be sexy if you feel sexy inside and feel comfortable in your authenticity and in your aim for transparency.

How many people have looked at my photos and smiled anyway? Probably a few, so that means happiness not only comes in the form of my verbal expression but also my physical appearance.

Let’s hear it for Happiness! Individuality! The Sexy Feminine! Acceptance! The True and Authentic Self! For Self-Confidence and High Self-Esteem! Non-Judgment! And Freedom of Expression…

Yes, it is ok to express myself… however I choose to. I ask you not to judge me for my sensual expression. I am not asking you to like it, just accept me for being me and I will accept you for being you.

6 comments:

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Anonymous said...

yeah go sexy. you will be happy and i will be happy to.
beside every guy (( but not your boyfriend or husband)) will enjoy looking at your sexy body!
go sexy! go sexy!

Anonymous said...

We (a small group of married, monogamous adults) are also very concerned about the stygma and treatment of womens sexuality in the USA. We strongly believe that women should be able to enjoy sexuality, sensuality, and sex. Especially sex. We are starting a small website called WomenCum2, specifically to promote the female orgasm and everything that leads up to it.

We look forward to working with anyone who has thoughts, ideas, or content related to making sex as good for women as it is for men.

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yMB (at the .com above)

Tuyen Nguyen said...

I agree with you. Expressing the sensuality side of a female is part of who we are. Why should I have to hide it if a little sexy make me feel more confident?

dead dreamer said...

u hav a really beautiful viewpoint,i agree with u in terms that happiness is a state of mind and every human irrespective of who or wat they r deserve to be happy ,if showcasing one;self ;giving myself identity ,the identity i wanna show the world the feeling i hav about myself ,whether in terms of sensuality or my personality its my own choice,,and my freedom to be me lies with only me and nobody else ,if i wanna go my own way ,i dont expect people to understand it or in anyway like it but its my own happiness that matters

Anonymous said...

Hi Aymee ! Absolutely agree with you, sensuality and erotism is the base of happiness, life is a infinite source of pleasure, joy and bliss if we open our body-mind to this evidence... So we have to be SEXY and full of sensual energy... not only the women but also the men! I hope that we'll can soon practice this together when I come in SF ! friendly, Bruno from France